Do You Have Difficulty
Many men and women have
problems reaching orgasm during intercourse. We tend to think that men
and women enjoy orgasm rates which reflect the difference in their
sexual drive. But the surprising thing
is that when you analyze the data, although men may want sex more often
than women, the frequency of orgasm is not so different:
over 90% of women can
reach orgasm via masturbation and almost all sexually active women
will reach orgasm given enough foreplay (say twenty minutes). Of course, you may wonder
purpose of the female orgasm actually is - there's no real
reason why women should have evolved an orgasm, as it's not needed for
reproduction. But that's another issue altogether!
Advice for men - if you can't reach orgasm easily during
intercourse, then you may have a condition known as delayed or retarded ejaculation. You can find out
all about retarded ejaculation here.
which prevents you from gaining the maximum sexual pleasure. Although men
who suffer from premature ejaculation may think this sounds like a gift
from the gods, you'll know that there's nothing funny about it in any way
whatsoever. If you can't reach orgasm, you can't please your partner, she
may well get sore and irritable, think she's not attractive, and withdraw
from sex. But here's the strange thing - delayed ejaculation is easily
cured by some simple treatment strategies which you can enjoy at home with
your partner. Don't allow this worrying problem to disturb your sex
life any longer - get the cure now, and feel pride in your sexual
If you're more interested in finding out about
sexual positions, this may be the place you need to go:
Different Sex Positions,
which is in fact somewhat derivative from other well known sexual
information sites on the internet, but has new and interesting pictures of
the various ways you can enjoy making love with your partner.
Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina and
translates as "sacred space" or "Jade garden." In Tantra, the Yoni is seen
as worthy of both love and respect. This is particularly important for men
Before a Yoni Massage you,
the man, must create a space for the woman in which she is able to
relax, a place in which she can more readily enter a state of high
sexual arousal and come to experience the maximum pleasure from
her Yoni. You will experience the joy of giving pleasure without
expectation of anything in return, and the thrill of seeing a special
moment. The Yoni Massage is a great form of "safe sex" and can build
trust and intimacy in a relationship. Some Tantric therapists use
massage of the G spot to assist women to break through sexual blocks or
But really, the Yoni massage is not just about achieving orgasm, welcome
though that may be. The objective is simply to provide pleasure and
massage the Yoni, so that both man and woman can relax, with no worry
about achieving any particular sexual goal. Should orgasm occur it can be
more expanded, intense and satisfying than normal. However, the giver
should not expect anything in return, because as provider of pleasure, he
wants his partner to enjoy the massage and to relax fully into her
Have the woman lie on her back with pillows
under her head. In this way she can look down at her genitals as well as
see her partner. A pillow covered with a towel can be placed under her
hips, with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent and supported
by pillows or cushions. This means her genitals will be clearly exposed
for the massage, with full access to the Yoni and other parts of her
Before you make contact with
her body, share some deep, relaxed breathing. Both of you can breathe
deeply, slowly and in a relaxed way during the entire process. The man
will gently remind the woman to start breathing again if she stops or
begins to take shallower breaths. Deep breathing is most important.
Start by gently massaging her legs, abdomen,
thighs, breasts, and belly so she relaxes and prepares for touch on her
Yoni. Use high-quality oil or lubricant, pouring it initially on her pubic
mound. Pour enough to drip along the outer lips and outside of her Yoni.
Then start to gently massage her pubic mound and outer lips: do not rush.
Take your time and enjoy giving the massage.
Next, gently squeeze the
outer labia between the thumb and index finger, and then slide up and
down the whole length of each labia. You can also treat the inner
labia to the same technique. But always take your time and try to look
into each other's eyes as much as you can. The woman should tell the man
if the pressure, speed, or amount of oil need to be changed. However,
limit your conversation as you continue to focus on the pleasurable
sensation, because too much talking will take you away from the almost
spiritual aspect of what you are doing.....
The Crown Jewel
The clitoris is a very complex structure, up
to four times more sensitive than the penis. The glans has around 8,000
sensory nerve endings, and so is hypersensitive - yet it has only one
function: to provide pleasure.
In a massage, stroke the
clitoris shaft with circles, or gently squeeze the body or shaft through
the skin between your thumb and index fingers. Do this as a massage
rather than as masturbation: if she becomes very aroused encourage her
to continue to relax and breathe.
Then, slowly and with great sensitivity,
insert your middle finger (from the right hand) into the Yoni. Start to
gently explore and massage the inside of your partner's vagina with the
pad of this finger. Always, always, take your time, make sure you are
gentle, and explore up, down and sideways. As you move your finger, vary
the depth of penetration, the speed of movement, and the pressure you
apply. Always remember this massage is about sustaining, nurturing and
relaxing your partner's Yoni.
Keep your palm facing
upwards, and use your middle finger to make a "come here" gesture, as it
crooks backwards towards the palm. The spongy, slightly raised, soft
area of tissue just under the location of the pubic bone and just behind
the clitoris, is the G-spot or sacred spot.
When touched, a woman may
feel the need to urinate, experience some discomfort or sense pleasure:
it all depends on how healed she is, and how much tension her Yoni is
holding. As you vary the pressure, speed and way in which you move the
pad of your finger, watch her responses: side to side, back and forth,
and circles will all produce different sensations. You can also insert
your fourth finger a well if you and she wish.....
....the majority of women
should have no problem with this and will show their enjoyment of the
increased stimulation which two fingers can provide....but always take
your time and be very gentle. It's wonderful for her if you use the
thumb of your right hand to stimulate her clitoris and the little finger
of the same hand to stimulate her anus - perhaps even penetrating her if
You can use your other hand
to caress her breasts, belly or clitoris. If you do choose to massage
her clitoris with the right hand, the best way is often to move your
thumb up and down motion while the rest of your hand remains gently
pressing on her pubic mound. The dual stimulation of right and left
hands (your left hand is massaging her Yoni at this stage) can provide
immense pleasure for her.
You'll want to continue massaging, with a
variety of speed, pressure and movements, but always breathe deeply and
look into each other's eyes. G spot massage often produces powerful
emotions - anger, sadness, and so on, or indeed joy. Just keep breathing,
be accepting - it's not about you: some women have been sexually abused
and this is how they heal. A caring, accepting, non-judgmental partner is
of immense value to her in this sexual healing.
has an orgasm,
ensure she continues to breath as you continue to massage her if she
wishes it. Multiple orgasms may occur, and if you have the technique, you
can make each more intense than the last. This is called "riding the
As you end the massage, remove your hands
slowly, gently, and with respect. Let your partner relax and and enjoy the
afterglow of this wonderful Yoni massage. For both of you, cuddling and
holding can be very soothing and comforting.
The Yoni Massage can greatly
enrich your sex life and teach you a great deal about female sexuality.
However, a word of caution: if you happen to have a yeast or bacterial infection of the vulva or vagina, then it may not be such a good idea
to engage in yoni massage.
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